Our Story

I was diagnosed with Stage 2B Breast Cancer at the age of 33. I underwent 4 months of chemo, 37 radiation treatments, and 6 surgeries, including a hysterectomy and a double mastectomy with immediate reconstruction.

Never in my life did I think I would have to make these types of decisions or have to go through what I went through. I had a great family, a supportive husband and awesome friends. But it’s the strangers that I met along this journey that made the most impact. I started meeting them 7 days after my diagnosis. My head was spinning; I was just told I had cancer and I was scared. The last thing I wanted to do was meet new people and share this horrible news with them. Turns out- it was the best thing I could have done. I met 35 courageous women that night who had been through what I was going to go through. They had lots of encouragement and tips & advice on how to get through chemo, radiation and surgeries. Not medical advice strictly speaking- more the “in-between” stuff that doctors & nurses don’t tell you about and friends & family don’t know. Some of the advice included: cotton scarves work better than silk, when is the right time to shave your head, you should eat popsicles when you get a certain chemo because it will prevent core sores in your mouth, and don’t eat your favorite foods while undergoing chemo- because it will kill your love for them. All these nuggets of info were nowhere to be found – except with my group. And that stumped me- how long have we all been fighting cancer? Why is this information not common knowledge? And what happens to the people who aren’t lucky like me and have a support group this amazing, or don’t want to talk to strangers?

Born out of my frustration and the desire to help the women after me have an easier experience, I created CancerVictory. I wanted CancerVictory to be a place of education, comfort and encouragement; where patients will not feel so alone. And a place for practical useful items to help with the side effects of treatment.

Survivors by the Sea

When I was laying on the bathroom floor dizzy and nauseous and wondering how I was going to get through the next day, let alone the next 6 months, I had these women to focus on. If they could do it, so could I. And that is why I will always be grateful to Survivors by the Sea, and why CancerVictory will always donate 10% of the profits every year back to Survivors by the Sea.

Olga and Linda threw me a last day of Chemo party. It even included anti-cancer cupcakes! It meant the world to me that they were there.

 

Nothing was going to keep me from enjoying Fenway! Not cancer, not the hot flashes, not the acid reflux!

My mother-in-law Emilie gave me this quote in a little frame, and I turned it into a chemo project.